Level 1 Workshop Outline

Level 1 Workshop Outline and Objectives... Who Should Attend

DAY ONE

8:30 am - 8:50 am:  Registration Check-In
9:00 am - 5:00 pm:  Workshop 
(Lunch on your own, 1 hr)

The Research - What Makes Relationships Succeed or Fail?

  • What is different about Gottman Method Couples Therapy
  • What is dysfunctional about relationships when they are ailing
  • The “Masters” and Disasters” of relationships: Exploding some common myths
  • Negative and positive sentiment overrides
  • Friendship, Intimacy, Positive Affect System
  • The Shared Meaning System

The Sound Relationship House Theory

The Assessment Sessions

Session 1 - Assessing the Couple Together

  • Couple’s Narrative
  • Oral History Interview
  • Videotape: A 10 minute Conflict Interaction 
  • Ending Session 1 - Preparing Couple for Individual Sessions - No secrets
  • Assessment: Written Questionnaires

Session 2 - Individual Sessions

Session 3 - The Therapeutic Contract: Discussing and Deciding about Goals.
                  Summary of Strengths and Areas that Need Improvement.
                  Assessment and film.

Day One Conclusion - Q and A


DAY TWO

9:00am - 5:00 pm: Workshop 
(Lunch on your own 1 hr.)

Introduction to Intervention

  • Assumptions of the Therapy
  • Overview of the Therapy
  • Goals of the Therapy

Conflict Management

  • Rapoport Intervention and film
  • Ending the Four Horsemen and film
  • Dreams Within Conflict and film
  • Building the Basic Skills (Softened Start-up, Accepting Influence, Repair and De-escalation, Physiological Soothing, Compromise)
  • Aftermath of a Fight and film

Building Friendship and Shared Meaning

  • Build Love Maps and film
  • Turn Towards: The Stress-Reducing Conversation and film
  • Build Rituals of Connection and film
  • Create Shared Meaning and film

Process of the Therapy

  • Structure of a Typical Session
  • What the Therapist Can Say
  • The Domino Theory of Emotion

Summary

  • What’s Next: Additional Training
  • Workshop Conclusion - Q and A


Workshop Objectives:

  1. Participants will be able to:
  2. Summarize the research that allows prediction of future relationship stability with 94% accuracy
  3. Describe the seven levels of the Sound Relationship House theory
  4. Conduct a couple's therapy assessment using elements of the couple's narrative, the Oral History Interview, written questionnaires, observations of conflict, and individual interviews
  5. Describe two interventions for each: to help strengthen a couple's management of conflict; to enhance a couple's friendship system; and to explore a couple's system of shared meaning.


Who Should Attend?

Participants working in the following fields will benefit from our training:

  • Mental health providers
  • Allied professionals and clergy
  • Students and interns
  • Family clinic staff
  • Professors/teachers of couples therapy
  • Researchers in the social sciences
  • Employee assistance professionals

For further information on the Couples Workshop, please contact:
Michael McNulty, PhD    -    Michael@ChicagoRelationshipCenter.com

Phone:  (847) 328-0106
Fax:  (847) 328-5497

The Chicago Relationship Center - 2 offices to serve you...
708 Church Street, Suite 258
Evanston, IL 60201

735 St. Johns Avenue, Suite 100
Highland Park, IL 60035 

Gottman Couples Therapy

Serving the Chicago Metropolitan area with offices located in Evanston, IL. and Highland Park, IL., The Chicago Relationship Center provides individual counseling services and psychotherapy. Locally for counseling and therapy, both offices serve the counties of Cook County, Lake County, and DuPage County and the Chicago neighborhoods and surrounding communities including Waukegan, North Chicago, Grayslake, Wauconda, Mundelein, Libertyville, Lake Bluff, Lake Forest, Vernon Hills, Highwood, Lincolnshire, Lake Zurich, Barrington, Buffalo Grove, Wheeling, Highland Park, Northbrook, Winnetka, Arlington Heights, Hoffman Estates, Schaumburg, Elk Grove Village, Des Plains, Glenview, Evanston, Park Ridge, West Ridge, Norwood Park, Bartlett, Roselle, Itasca, Bloomingdale, Addison, Franklin Park, North Side, Uptown, Lake View, Logan Square, Northlake, Elmhurst, Lombard, the Lower West Side, Cicero, Brookfield, La Grange, Downers Grove, Wheaton, West Chicago, and Carol Stream, Illinois.